An educational plan allows parents to describe in detail who can make decisions about the child, how much time each party will spend with them and whether a party receives family allowances, as well as any other agreements they can make. Vacation time. During the summer months, the father has unlimited access to the children for two (2) weeks for the holidays, provided that the father works in good faith with the mother and makes the best reasonable efforts to complete these mother-friendly holidays. Where a parent lives in another State, the question may arise as to which State is responsible for determining custody. The Child Custody Jurisdiction and Enforcement Act uniform states that the child`s “state of origin” – or the state in which the child lived six months before the custody proceedings. Physical custody is about the right to let the child live with a parent. . . .